A common concern of martial arts for kids A note for parents A common concern of martial arts for kids A note for parents A common concern of parents who, as a martial arts instructor, I still faced the challenge is that parents often have for their students. "I have to fight to get here," or ... "He just wants to play with their friends," are common statements that I hear.Often, parents leave their children to stop taking into account, but then to see that is not what the student wants. "How" I asked: "Can I keep training for the fight, but when it's time to come to karate class? "it is very difficult to understand the contradiction between having to fight to get their children to class and the fact that they are so much fun when here.To solve the mystery and to eliminate misunderstandings is to understand how a child thinks and how the brain has developed to this point in their young lives. It 'very important that parents and teachers ...... to remember that children are not adults in little bodies.And, many of the things that we, or more correctly, our brain fully developed, are not yet possible, including the processes of child development mind.So This makes them resistant to come to class, but have a time we are? The answer is: timing.Quite frankly, children (and adults) have not developed an understanding of the concept of planning and timing. In other words, once they are involved in something, what they want to do. Everything else, no matter how nice or necessary, therefore, is seen as an obstacle at the moment of fun. "If you watch TV, play with friends, or anything else, once a child is involved in something, anything, that "thing" is your attention - period.So what is a father to elleve frustration, both for themselves - and their son? Avoiding the mistake of taking the son of martial arts training - the only thing they need to teach your son's daughter life lessons not taught in any school that can not one? Of all the possible answers that I share with parents who bring their children to me, my best advice is ... "Do not let your child know what grab your attention so that it will be difficult for both, in at least one hour of leaving home to go to a martial arts class. "But what can you do if you can not participate in anything? simple. Ask them to prepare for class. Ask them to ensure that their uniforms, including tapes of martial arts, is in order and perfectly folded. Are to review their movements, all the vocabulary that is necessary, or even tell you something "fresh" or "incredible" that the hope of working when they reach class.The point is, really help your child develop the discipline required to succeed in martial arts and to reach its goal of becoming a black belt, you have to use your brain to help them cope with their own areas that have not yet developed.By understand the needs of their child, from his perspective, and not just yours, that rise above the masses of clueless parents who act born of frustration over a lack of understanding of what it means to be a bad parent.Too .... .. Black Belt does not deliver to the parents to achieve this level of understanding, do not you think? Jeffrey M. Miller is the founder and master instructor of Warrior Concepts International. A former teacher of the Japanese warrior art of Ninjutsu, which specializes in teaching the ancient ways of self-protection and personal development experience in a way that is easy to understand and to make information available to modern Western students and corporate clients. Through their training in martial arts, students and clients learn proven, time-tested lessons designed to help them create the life you've always dreamed of living, and skills necessary for the protection of life that everything that can make at risk. For more information on child development and other issues related to martial arts, defense, personal development and self-improvement, visit his website to subscribe to the newsletter online, go to / newsletter-subscribe - auto-defense.html .
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